Tao wisdom begins with having an empty mind. What is
an empty mind? An empty mind is more than just "thinking out of the
box": it is reverse thinking to create your own box of
thinking. An empty mindset originated from Lao Tzu:
"An
empty mind with no craving and no expectation helps us letting go.
Being
in the world and not of the world, we attain heavenly grace.
With
heavenly grace, we become pure and selfless.
And
everything settles into its own perfect place."
(Lao
Tzu, Tao Te Ching, chapter 3)
“Letting go is emptying the
mundane,
to be filled with heavenly
grace.
Blessed is he who has an
empty mind.
He will be filled with
knowledge and wisdom from the Creator.”
(Lao
Tzu, Tao
Te Ching, chapter 9)
There
was the story of a professor visiting a Zen master to find out more about Zen,
which is an Eastern philosophy originating from Tao wisdom. In the beginning of
the visit, the professor kept on talking while the Zen master was serving him
tea. The Zen master kept pouring tea into the teacup held by the professor even
though it was already brimming over the teacup.
The
moral of the story is that one must, first and foremost, have an empty mind
before one can accept new and unconventional ideas. Likewise, to intuit true
wisdom, one must have an empty mind capable of reverse thinking.
An
empty mindset not only provides clarity of thinking, but also frees us from the
many shackles of life that enslave us, keeping us in bondage without our
knowing it. Are you the master or just a slave of your own life? Often times,
we think we are masters of our lives and we are in total control, but in fact
we are no more than slaves. You are the master only when you have complete
control over your life, or rather your way of thinking. Remember, your mind controls
you, especially your subconscious mind—what you do, or how you act and react in
different circumstances and situations in life.
How
do you gain or re-gain control over your life in terms of your career, human
relationships, time management, and daily stress, among others? It is not
easy because most of us have a pre-conditioned mindset that we must do this and
do that in order to succeed in life. To illustrate, in our subconscious minds,
we want to do well, and, to do well, we must set life goals; to reach our life
goals, we must exert efforts; after accomplishing one life goal, we need to set
another higher one, and yet another one higher than the previous ones. In the
end, our lives get more complicated and even out of control; as a result, we are
no longer masters but only slaves to what we have accomplished for ourselves.
As a further illustration, Lance
Armstrong, the once-famous-and-now-disgraced cyclist, used
performance-enhancing drugs to win his races in order to sustain his ego to
win, which is compounded of his winnings, that ultimately brought about his own
downfall.
The
bottom line: do not let your life careen out of control, and do not live your
life with a life of its own; get your own
life back in order! An empty mind is the opposite of a compulsive mind that
tells you to do this and that, making you a slave of your own life, instead of
its master.
Stephen Lau
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